Archive for May, 2007

Don’t be knocked out by adversity or suffering

Saturday, May 5th, 2007

All of us will think of our suffering as unique and private,But what is most private is also most universal.People have been there and gone through the same suffering.What can we learn from them so that we are prepared?what must we plan ahead to understand?what can we do,to better prepareourselves to handle the crisis.

I think the following advance preparation are useful:

1. Ask- ask “what” instead of “why”.
2. see- about “who is responsible for our “suffering”.
3. Learn- from someone who was suffering.
4. Accept- accept the miracles
5. Call- call ourselves to make that quantum leap in our faith.
6. Equip- equip ourselves to help,comfort and counsel others..

50 questions about myself..

Friday, May 4th, 2007

1. Your name spelled backwards:  Gianwee

2. Where were your parents born? Malaysia,Seremban

3. What is the last thing you downloaded onto your computer?  TVB drama series.

4. What’s your favorite restaurant?  Seoul house

5. Last time you swam in a pool?  Opps,that’s age ago..

6. Have you ever been in a school play?  No

7. How many kids do you want? great question,how could i know?

8. Type of music you dislike most? everyone has misunderstood this question…it says what do you DISLIKE….and for me that is rap

9. Are you registered to vote?  damn straight I am
10. Do you have a car?  Yes
11. Have you ever ridden on a moped?  yes

12. Ever prank call anybody?  Yes
13. Ever get a parking ticket?  no

14. Would you go bungee jumping or sky diving? heck no

16. Do you have a garden?  i do at hometown

17. What’s the size of your bed?  Twin at Melbourne and home

18. Do you really know all the words to your national anthem?  maybe!!
19.

Bath

or Shower, morning or night?  Shower in the morning

20. Best Movie You’ve seen in the Last 4 months? Doraemon

21. What’s the next movie you want to see?  Spiderman 3

22. Chips or popcorn?  Kettle style popcorn

23. Have you ever broken any hearts?  to be silent..

24. Premarital sex? hmm

25. Are you a good cook?depends on my mood

26.

Orange

or Apple juice?  Light orange juice
27. Who was the last person you went out to dinner with and where did you go?  I believe that would have to be Liddy and we went to Indian food.

28. Favorite type of drink? red wine and coke…….

29. Best thing in the world?  away from malaysia..

30. Have you ever broken a bone?  no
31. Have you ever won a trophy?  No
32. What is your favorite board game?  chess,etc

33. What is your dream car?  2001 navy blue GMC Z71  =-)
34. Ever order an article from an infomercial?  no

35. Coke or Pepsi?  Sam’s Cola man

36. Have you ever had to wear a uniform to work? sort of when I was at a PDI.

37. Last thing you bought at a pharmacy?cold medicine
38. Who are you going to marry?  Venice,if i could..
39. Who would you like to meet? See previous question. [only KIDDING!!!!]

40. Do you believe in love at first sight?  yeah..how sily am i..

41. What features do you find most attractive in the opposite sex?  Trust, intelligence, humor, and caring [and it helps if they are REALLY overweight]
42. Where would you go for a romantic evening? Darling harbour,sydney

43. How many pairs of shoes do you own? like 10 ++ i guess
44. Last song stuck in your head? Awaka ,josh broban

45. Any pets?  one dog at home.

46. What’s your all time favorite Saturday Night Live Character? i never really watched that

47. What is one thing you would like to learn to do? gain weight
48. What do you do when you are bored?  create post to my each blog,call interupt someone..

49. What is one thing you would want someone to appreciate about you?  my thumbs used to be double jointed…i think if more people knew how the joints fused and made them normal again I would be more loved

50. What is one thing you are grateful for today?  Prepared for dinner,and also attend to josh birthday..

Don’t be bitter

Tuesday, May 1st, 2007

I’m too lazy to spend a lot time writing out things better I already wrote in an email earlier today.  This was all thinking as I’m typing, sorta like now, without editing, but it’s not like ya’ll should be used to reading my organized and delicately stated thoughts anyway. so I don’t feel like I can write a lot right now, but I will anyway. Night of week days, I had one of the most surreal experiences so far here in Melbourne.

ps:    don’t be bitter.  it does nothing but eat you from the inside out.  though it may be painful addressing a difficult issue with no right answer, it’s better than never getting over it.  giving in doesn’t make someone weak, just not bullheaded.